Why Strict Teaching Sometimes Works — and More Often Destroys

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Why Strict Teaching Sometimes Works — and More Often Destroys

Recently I posted a video in Piano BAZA where a teacher speaks quite harshly to a student.

Many people immediately react to this in a very direct way:
“Terrible”, “unacceptable”, “this shouldn’t be allowed”.

But in reality, it’s a bit more complex.

Why it sometimes works

If we remove outright aggression and words like “shameful”,
this kind of teaching style was almost the norm in the Soviet system.

And yes — many strong musicians came out of that system.

Why?

Because there was a clear framework:
👉 you are going into the profession
👉 the standards are high
👉 relaxing is not an option

Within this logic, strictness can produce results.


But there is an important point

Only a small minority become concert pianists.

But hundreds of thousands go through this system.

And this raises the main question:

👉 what happens to the rest?

Very often:
— lost love for music
— a constant feeling of pressure
— the desire to “finally finish and never play again”


The Swedish contrast

Now I live in Sweden and see a completely different system.

Here:
— no one pressures you
— no one shouts
— teaching is gentle

At some stage, it may seem that the level is lower.

But there is another side:

👉 many more people who love music
👉 who continue playing as adults
👉 who actually enjoy it

And this is also a result — just a different one.


The main problem — mixing goals

It seems to me that the root of the problem is that for a long time everyone was taught the same way.

But there are two completely different paths:

Professional
“For personal enjoyment”

And the requirements for them cannot be the same.

If a person is not planning to become a professional musician,
why lead them through a system of constant pressure?


But it’s not that simple

It’s important to say honestly:

it’s not always the teacher’s fault.

Modern children often:
— don’t want to practice
— quickly lose concentration

And parents sometimes make it worse
by not providing any structure.

So the situation is complex.

And there is no universal answer.


What to do about it

It is possible to figure it out.

But not alone.

You need an environment where:
— you can discuss
— ask questions
— share experience
— see different approaches

If you want to go deeper —
you can join here:

https://t.me/pianohaven

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